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  • Victims of Law
    Can't afford a lawyer? Check out this site to learn how to represent yourself (Pro Se). Don't get caught up in rebellion against the legal business, follow the court rules & rules of evidence for your jurisdiction. Learn everything you can about court procedure.
  • Feed the Hungry
  • Mary Turner Thompson
    Mary Turner Thompson is a victim of a serial bigamist and sociopath. She is also author of the books “The OTHER Mrs Jordan” and "The Bigamist: The True Story of a Husband's Ultimate Betrayal", which detail a life of six years lived with a sociopath, Mary discovered her ‘husband’ to be a bigamist, con man and pedophile. Rather than be destroyed by the experience, she has let it make her stronger and wiser, with the ability to help others overcome similar emotional and psychological abuse.
  • The Exposer
    We are working to expose cyberpaths & Internet predators who prey on other adults via dating sites, chat rooms, instant messaging for sex, money or just mental & emotional kicks. We want to help make the 'net safer for all!

  • ReportIllegals.com

    Marriages are difficult enough, but when immigration status is an incentive, problems do occur. This site has been shocked to find so many cases of Green Card Heartache which is when a marriage that was for obtaining immigration status ends. Victims of Green Card Heartache suffer severe emotional, financial and legal problems as the result of a spouse marrying for immigration status. About 33% of marriages between illegal aliens and citizens are blatantly sham marriages where money is exchanged, the couple does not even live together and may not have even met each other. Of course the politically correct media would never expose such a problem.

  • Truth About Deception
    Information about Lying, Cheating and Deception between a Husband and Wife, Boyfriend and Girlfriend
  • Parenting the At Risk Child
    Your source of information and resources for parenting a child at risk for ADHD, addiction, and antisocial behavior. Your child may be at risk if someone in your family has any of these disorders. This website authored by a psychiatrist, Liane J. Leedom who in December 2001, after a short courtship, unknowingly married a con artist. Liane realized that her son's father was likely a psychopath. Liane knew from lectures she had attended that this disorder has a strong genetic basis. At this site, you can find some answers for if you are a parent looking to care for at risk children in the best possible way.
  • The World's full of Con Men and Women
    Blog authored by Donna Layne Roberts, victim of the notorious con man bigamist, William Michael Barber.
  • A Perfect Target
    Blog authored by woman who journals the similarities between the behavior and personality traits indicative of a sociopath, in her opinion, and what she experienced with her former spouse.

  • ChatCheaters.com - A site about infidelity
  • Emotional Abuse and Your Faith
    Collection of Articles this blogger has found on Emotional and Verbal Abuse. She searches for ones that are geared towards the faith-based prospective. It is not just towards one but many faiths.
  • Holly's Fight for Justice
    Provides information relating to crime victims, which comes from personal experience with Canada's Justice System, reforms, and includes resources of information for crime victims in Canada, United States also other countries. Holly's story of surviving rape and advocating for crime victims around the globe.
  • You Are A Target; Not A Victim
    We hope the resources and experience of the women and men who contribute to YouAreATarget.com can help break the verbal and emotional abuse cycle in your life. We have a number of helpful sections.

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September 08, 2006

Why We Need a National Marriage Database

An article by Jerry Markon and Jamie Stockwell appeared in the The Washington Post today about Sham Marriages in Arlington County Virginia as well as other jurisdictions in Northern Virginia. According to Markon and Stockwell's article: Law-enforcement officials said the scheme took advantage of marriage laws they called lax in Virginia compared with those of the rest of the Washington region. Couples can apply for and be granted a license within minutes -- and can get married the same day. Yesterday, at the Arlington clerk's office, for example, a young couple, arm in arm, applied for a marriage license. Ten minutes later, a clerk asked them to raise their right hands and handed them a license. A sign nearby said: "Marriage licenses are $30 cash only. No checks, debit or credit cards."

Each state and the District of Columbia have laws for applying for a marriage license. A legal marriage provides benefits to both parties and is a legal, binding contract. Marriage licenses were not issued in the United States until the mid-1800s. In 1923, the Federal Government passed the Uniform Marriage and Marriage License Act. It was not until 1929 that every state had marriage license laws conforming to Federal standards. For the first time, every marriage in order to be legally recognized by the Federal Government had to be licensed.

Getting a marriage license is easy. In my home state of Virginia, the couple does not even have to be a resident of the state, there is no waiting period, and only some Virginia counties require a copy of a divorce decree if either of the applicants were married previously. You just have to show them your driver's license, pay $30 (cash), and you've got a license. The next day you could go to another county with another applicant and receive another marriage license.

This happens because there is no system in place to check to see if the applicants are married in another county much less another state. The proof of a prior marriage could be a divorce decree from two or three marriages back. The unsuspecting bride or groom wouldn't realize that there was a previous marriage that had not ended in divorce. Or depending on what was told to the other party, the appliciant could claim they had never been married. Getting away with multiple, fraudulent marriages in our country is a snap.

This system worked when it was first initiated because most people lived in rural communities where everyone knew one another, and punishment for bigamy was much more severe. Also most marriages at that time were religious unions and recorded in the family Bible.

Our archaic system is failing in our transitional, wireless-based society of today. Moreover, Internet dating sites have given many of these predators a whole new supply. Our fragile system is taken advantage of by serial bigamists sociopaths and con artists. Also fraudulent sham marriages, many that are bigamous, have become common among illegal aliens needing a green card and a path to citizenship.

A centralized National Marriage Database is desperately needed in this country. I urge you to sign Donna Layne Roberts' petition.

November 11, 2005

Bigamy State Laws

Bigamyseriousoffense_02_1Please note there is no centralized database for jurisdictions to check to see whether or not a person is being truthful on their application. The sentences and fines for bigamy are less than for a DUI. If a National Marriage Database were in place, this would not be a problem. I urge you to sign the petition urging Congress to institute such a database.

Bigamy statutes for each state and the District of Columbia are divided alphabetically into the following categories:

Check out the section on Bigamy Misdemeanor States.